Do you actually need to be confident !

 What is confidence ?

Recently me and my colleagues were asked to give a presentation on a particular topic which we were allotted. It was not a kind of new experience for me but for one of my colleague it was going to be his first time.

When we were discussing about the presentation he came to me and asked that if he could have replacement for his job in the work.

This incident forced me to think on what might be the problem with him that lead him to remove his name from the list.

The answer was simple it was lack of self confidence. He was too shy to speak in front of others and was afraid of mistakes which he might do in front of the audience. Ultimately it was lack of confidence in him.

If I am not wrong this is the problem with many of us.

To define confidence it is nothing more than a trust or strong believe in someone/ something.

In the case of self confidence the someone is no one else but you.

How to bring confidence ?

After knowing the importance and need of confidence in our life both professional and personal. The next question in our mind is how we can bring confidence in ourselves?

Friends according to me the question in itself is completely wrong. Yeah you may be surprised to read this but it's true.

The problem with today's generation is that it requires fast and easy tips and tricks to get something which is also in the case of confidence and you may be expecting the same through me if you are reading this.

But my approach is completely different I think confidence is not a sort of thing wich you can bring in yourself at the time required. No it's completely not that.

Confidence related to something comes to you automatically when you have master that particular task. It is not a quick and simple process, it requires time and dedication by an individual.

Let's take an example of a man who is riding a bike and is talking with his wife simultaneously. Kind of safety sort of thing please do not do this it is just an example.

So moving up with our example if the man is talking with his wife and riding the bike at the same time he is having the confidence that he can do both the things at the same time.

Now look at the case of new learner who is learning to write the bike. Will he be able to 

do so? Absolutely not.

This is the magic of confidence which the man has developed in him with passage of time and by riding the Bike for a long time. Which the new learner will have to gain by practicing more and more.

Do you require confidence?

The answer to this question is very simple and relatable. You require confidence. But the question is how do you acquire it. Do you acquire it on the base of practice and task which you have performed and have gained the mastery in or it is completely baseless. Ethically talking it should be based on your action and not what others think about you or what you have perform in the same task in the history.

Ending Note:

Hope this article was helpful and now you have understood the real meaning of bringig confidence or correctly speaking the way of acquiring real confidence.

Remember my friends confidence is not believing in yourself baselessly. It is the believe in your ability to perform when you have gained mastery in your respective tasks.

Note : The above work is completely the creation of author's mind and views. The author had tried a completely different approach to look at confidence in a more practical and relatable manner.